Male Insecurity and Jealousy

At the last you’ve met the girl of your dreams and got her. She is beautiful, nice and sexy. You are lucky! When you are walking with her all the guys around are getting jealous and checking her up with their eyes.

You keep her closer and put your arm to her waist, and throw around “she is mine” glares. You want to always control her moves and keep her in your visibility, and you experience explosions of jealousy and insecurity even there is no reason for this.

You call her very often just to know where she is and what does her doing. You cannot breath while waiting her to pick-up her phone.

You suffer assaults of paranoia when she says that she is going to spend evening with her friends from work place, or she have meeting with her ex-boyfriend to clear up some details. It’s painful for you to hear about her past love stories.

The feeling of insecurity and jealousy covers you often, so that you direct your energy to protect yourself from it in aggressive way.

You are trying to overwhelm her with your actions; by buying her the most beautiful flowers, expensive dinners, expensive holidays and wonderful gifts.

You always want to control the relationship and be the hard side. You practice the possess-and-isolate tactic with her. All the time you are trying to find reasons for her to be with you, or at least when you have time and call her. You are not very sympathetic to her friends, because they feel that you want to isolate her from them.

What is the reason of all these jealousy and insecurity? Maybe you had some bad relationship experiences before, and you don’t want to happen all them again. And to guarantee the success you are working hard on ensuring her that you are the only one, with whom she will be absolutely happy.

But sometimes, it was obtained that the reason of insecurity was a deficiency in the size of the male member. A lot of men are worried that they will not be able to satisfy their ladies because of lack of correspondence in penis size. Maybe this explains why the natural penis enlargement is so attractive now.

And one more important reason is probably money and health. Many men are envied by others, who are more successful and earning more money. More money means more possibilities to buy lavish gifts, to invite to expensive restaurants and expensive holidays. And these are important factor, which are making you more attractive in their eyes.

As women do, men also want to be liked and loved. They also want to feel that they are very special for someone. They want to be esteemed, adored and respected. They want to feel that somebody need and love them.

What is the way to control the jealousy and insecurity? Make self-assessment first. Then, after making resumes for yourself, start improvement. Join sports club, go to the gym, learn love science, arts, acting, or literature.

I would recommend trying to improve loyalty and trust between you and her. Treat her in the way you want her to treat to you. Do not let your fears and insecurities to ruin your relationship and take care of your health.

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